Wednesday, February 26, 2014

I Don't Want to be a Contender - 2/26/2014

So, we are all different, in some way. What I would like to know is why does different always seem to lead to contention? We talk about the strength of diversity, but don't seem to understand what that means.

Diversity is brown hair and blond hair and red hair. Diversity is dark skin and lighter skin. Diversity is male and female, tall and short, gay, straight and in between. Diversity is every human being expressing their humanity each in their own way.

And that continues into the ideas of culture, philosophy, religion, politics and every other aspect of human endeavor. The presence of different, sometimes uncomfortable ideas is a good thing, and should be celebrated as enthusiastically as we are beginning to celebrate the other, more obvious differences between us.

Unfortunately, every time we start talking to each other, those differences seem to breed fear, anger and defensiveness. Why is it not possible for people to discuss ideas, traditions, understandings and perspectives without feeling threatened by those that are different?

I don't know the answer to that question, but if you are someone who has different ideas, different cultural and spiritual values, I'd love to hear from you. Every now and then, it's wonderful to discuss these things in a way that doesn't lead to arguments about right and wrong, but to broader perspectives and understanding each other and ourselves. I might not agree with what you say, but I will do my best to find some value in hearing you say it.


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